This Dussehra, let’s burn what holds us back


Hi Reader

Dussehra is about victory of light over darkness. But for parents, the “darkness” often looks like stress, disconnection, or words we regret saying at home.

So here’s a quick listicle to help you lead your family better starting today:

  1. Burn impatience, plant patience. Breathe before you speak. One calm pause can save an argument.
  2. Burn silence, plant listening. Instead of “hmm,” ask your spouse or child one curious question today.
  3. Burn blame, plant leadership. Lead with “I feel” instead of “You always.” It changes the energy instantly.
  4. Burn distraction, plant presence. Put your phone away for 15 minutes and give undivided attention.
  5. Burn perfection, plant connection. Your family doesn’t need you flawless, just present and steady.

This is the heart of what I call Family Emotional Leadership — love guided by calm, presence, and leadership.

✨ And to go deeper, I’ve created a special resource for you:
👉 Raise: 7 Ways to Pass Down Emotional Intelligence Without Preaching, Forcing, or Getting It Perfect

Grab it here → https://santosh.cc/raise


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Stay connected because in the coming weeks I’ll be sharing:

  • Real stories of dads transforming their homes.
  • Practical scripts you can use in tough moments.
  • Invitations to my live trainings where we go deeper.

This Dussehra, let’s not just celebrate victory from the past. Let’s create small victories in our homes today.

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Wishing you and your family love, calm, and connection,


Santosh

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